@missellequeue Oakland, CA

Also, when friends notice your discomfort, and try to dismiss it by being defensive of the person making you feel unsafe, what do you do?

6:55PM Sun, July 15 2012

@ravenofroses Neverwhere

i say "this person and i have a bad history. i can't help being wary."

6:56PM Sun, July 15 2012

@joqatana

tell them exactly what he said to me, what he said about me, that he physically assaulted and slandered my best friend.

6:56PM Sun, July 15 2012

@AlienA23P Denver

Either get away from the situation & find new friends or take the time to consider that YOU may have actually been the issue.

6:58PM Sun, July 15 2012

@dlcpacfe

I never want anyone to make someone feel bad & when it's happened I set things right and then banish bullies and enablers

6:58PM Sun, July 15 2012

@LeroyMitch San Diego

tell them to stop enabling abusers imo

6:58PM Sun, July 15 2012

@Humboldtistan Humboldtistan

Reevaluate said "friendship". Friends won't dismiss your discomfort. Still, it is ultimately up to you to not give it power.

6:59PM Sun, July 15 2012

@Grlyflynn San francisco

not 2 sound harsh. But ur real friends should understand the situation. Of course some people will continue 2 hang w the abuser

6:59PM Sun, July 15 2012

@PissingNeedles Washington, D.C.

You stab the fuckers and then steal their mints! :D

7:00PM Sun, July 15 2012

@johansmiley Planet Texas

you tell your friends that you don't want to be around this abusive person. My daughter had the same problem. Honesty worked.

7:00PM Sun, July 15 2012

@Grlyflynn San francisco

but in my experience the best thing 2 do is express ur discomfort 2 people u trust. Figure out what u want from ur friends

7:02PM Sun, July 15 2012

@johansmiley Planet Texas

sucks when 2 faced people are part of your group of friends. Call this person out. Don't let them make YOU uncomfortable :)

7:02PM Sun, July 15 2012

@xoloboy The upper node of venus

change your friends.

7:13PM Sun, July 15 2012

@rosejayada SF CA

you realize those people are not your friends

7:17PM Sun, July 15 2012

@RobynFantastica Oakland, CA

High tail it out of there. Dismissing your discomfort only adds to it, as I'm sure you're aware. Have a trusted pal with you.

7:27PM Sun, July 15 2012

@Faustrate Berkeley!

Let the event creator and said friends know as much as you're comfortable telling them?

7:40PM Sun, July 15 2012

@kemo_sabe48 SF Bay Area

Own your space; know your value; be proud.

7:51PM Sun, July 15 2012

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Also, when friends notice your discomfort, and try to dismiss it by being defensive of the person making you feel unsafe, what do you do?

i say "this person and i have a bad history. i can't help being wary."

tell them exactly what he said to me, what he said about me, that he physically assaulted and slandered my best friend.

Either get away from the situation & find new friends or take the time to consider that YOU may have actually been the issue.

I never want anyone to make someone feel bad & when it's happened I set things right and then banish bullies and enablers

tell them to stop enabling abusers imo

Reevaluate said "friendship". Friends won't dismiss your discomfort. Still, it is ultimately up to you to not give it power.

not 2 sound harsh. But ur real friends should understand the situation. Of course some people will continue 2 hang w the abuser

You stab the fuckers and then steal their mints! :D

you tell your friends that you don't want to be around this abusive person. My daughter had the same problem. Honesty worked.

but in my experience the best thing 2 do is express ur discomfort 2 people u trust. Figure out what u want from ur friends

sucks when 2 faced people are part of your group of friends. Call this person out. Don't let them make YOU uncomfortable :)

change your friends.

you realize those people are not your friends

High tail it out of there. Dismissing your discomfort only adds to it, as I'm sure you're aware. Have a trusted pal with you.

Let the event creator and said friends know as much as you're comfortable telling them?

Own your space; know your value; be proud.

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Replyz collects and amplifies questions from around the web, allowing a wider audience to answer them.

Also, when friends notice your discomfort, and try to dismiss it by being defensive of the person making you feel unsafe, what do you do?

i say "this person and i have a bad history. i can't help being wary."

tell them exactly what he said to me, what he said about me, that he physically assaulted and slandered my best friend.

Either get away from the situation &amp; find new friends or take the time to consider that YOU may have actually been the issue.

I never want anyone to make someone feel bad &amp; when it's happened I set things right and then banish bullies and enablers

tell them to stop enabling abusers imo

Reevaluate said "friendship". Friends won't dismiss your discomfort. Still, it is ultimately up to you to not give it power.

not 2 sound harsh. But ur real friends should understand the situation. Of course some people will continue 2 hang w the abuser

You stab the fuckers and then steal their mints! :D

you tell your friends that you don't want to be around this abusive person. My daughter had the same problem. Honesty worked.

but in my experience the best thing 2 do is express ur discomfort 2 people u trust. Figure out what u want from ur friends

sucks when 2 faced people are part of your group of friends. Call this person out. Don't let them make YOU uncomfortable :)

change your friends.

you realize those people are not your friends

High tail it out of there. Dismissing your discomfort only adds to it, as I'm sure you're aware. Have a trusted pal with you.

Let the event creator and said friends know as much as you're comfortable telling them?

Own your space; know your value; be proud.

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Either get away from the situation & find new friends or take the time to consider that YOU may have actually been the issue.

I never want anyone to make someone feel bad & when it's happened I set things right and then banish bullies and enablers